Good news, I’m back doing sessions once again!
I never expected the aftermath of the surgery to last so long, the pain has stuck around longer than herpes does (i’m going by word of mouth on that one) and I sat in one spot on my sofa for so long that there is now a permanent ass dent in the cushion. Feel free to come over and sniff it at your leisure 😛
I tend to write from recollection of memorable sessions but since I’ve had no sessions to base my thoughts on I’ve had a hard time coming up with things to write about that wouldn’t bore you to tears. I had written up a story on “the advantages of having a pussy the size of a softball” but had to stop after “they’ll think I’m a hung ladyboy if I go for a walk” as there really are no advantages. Guys are lucky, if you had elephantitis of your testicles a great percentage of girls would run to bang you silly and you could definitely use that to your advantage.
While I’m happy to report that while my pussy is back to normal there is a lingering post-surgery tenderness that’ll prevent me from being laid for yet another month or so. Honestly, I get laid less than a nun .. and definitely than a priest 😛 So you guys can lay to rest the fallacy that pretty girls can laid whenever they want, I’m living proof we don’t.
So in looking for inspiration to write about, I came across this email that expressed a common wish that many share, one that is erroneous as it goes against what a Tease & Denial session seeks to accomplish. Check it out:
I get a kick out of when people say “rubbing me” , I always get this visual of a dude rubbing the head of his dick like he’s trying to make fire. There’s very little rubbing that goes on in a Tease session , that familiar up and down motion is what the guy wants to feel as it gives him pleasure , my job is to give him no relief. I think of it like going up on a roller coaster and getting that sensation of butterflies in the stomach one gets just as they reach the top … except that my roller coaster never reaches the top , it just climbs and climbs perpetually.
But that’s not what is at fault in his thinking. My issue is in the reasoning behind his desire for a session , that being so he can be trained to last longer.
Trust me, you won’t want to last longer in my session or in Wael’s for that matter. In fact, you’ll be begging to cum inside of three minutes and you’ll be wishing you had booked a happy ending massage before your first 10 minutes are up.
I have a video , sorry I can’t share it publicly as it has my voice on it , but if you want to see it ask me privately for the link. Anyways, in said video the guy says “please don’t stop again, no no no, please please I need to cum, I’m begging you let me cum” followed by 10 seconds of uncontrollable sobbing. It’s not an act, that’s what every single guy says inside of 15 minutes. In preparation for my session I often give guys a game to play with themselves. You can play along too if you like, it’s a good introduction to what Tease & Denial is like.
To begin, you are not allowed to touch yourself or cum for three straight days, and in that time you are not permitted to look at anything pornographic, it’s just a build up period that will ensure your dick will over respond when stimulated. Upon the arrival of the fourth day when you have a considerable amount of time at your disposal I need you to look up the fetish niche of porn that you go to when you want to be fully stimulate your imagination. For this dude it’ll be a sexy girl in pantyhose , for the guy I’m seeing tonight it’ll be a ballbusting video , it can be whatever – just make sure it’s the forbidden niche that turns you on the most.
While watching it you are to stroke yourself ever so slowly. At no point are you allowed to permit your hand to do any violent up and down motion that gives you a relief from the build up. When you get close, it’ll be because you’ve touched yourself over many long minutes at a very slow pace and not because you pounded it like a monkey. Understood? Then once your getting close you ar to bring yourself right to the moment of no return and then release it from your grasp, using your breathing and concentration to make the semen regress down the tunnel from which it came.
You are to repeat that routine a minimum of three times, ensuring you don’t fail. Go , do it.
How do you feel?
This blog has about 1,000 readers a day , i’m sure that none of you at any point in this exercise said to yourselves”why yes, I love this feeling of not being able to cum, I would like this feeling of frustration to last infinitely” like the guy who wrote that email is suggesting.
Now that’s 15 minutes only, imagine an hour of feeling like that. Now imagine two.
I tell you what, this guy after I see him is going to go home and monkey fuck his wife as hard and as fast as he can. His dick is going to burst through his nylons like the Alien busts through the stomach wall in the movie of the same name and it’s going to be out for vengeance.
Normally when a guy bangs his wife and it’s feeling good, at some point this thought goes through his mind “oh i’m getting close, i need to slow down, yes good, relax, breathe, slowly … slowly … she won’t notice if I stop and bite her ear a bit will she?”
Well first , yes we know what’s going on, we know you’re about to fail and you’re buying time. Instead of biting into the girls shoulder you should just say “honey I just about fucked up, let me pause here, I’ll be back after these commercial messages.”
Point is, it’s during sex that you want things to slow down … not during my Tease & Denial session.
xx