I have priorities before having kids … have a place to live either a condo or house, in my own name, fully paid for. have a bank account and investment portfolio that are equal to the amount a successful foreigner would have at age 30 if not more. Be living as far away from Thailand as possible, a galaxy far, far away would be fine, failing that, a different continent would suffice. Then and only then would i start to think about having children. Sounds attainable right? Not if you understand village life and the traps that come with it. To give you an example, I had an evening out with 5 former girlfriends who are now just acquaintances but all of whom I …
