Just because I love the lighter, sexier, seductive side of BDSM doesn’t mean that I’m soft and gentle to the point where I can not be mean. I can, it’s just that I prefer to make a man submit by torturing his mind rather than his body. Some times though guys just do or say something that wakes up the Pasaya side of me and when they do, look out. In this last case it was the safe word Roma that got me snarling right from the first email …
u can fuck me with a dick big like mine , but after if i resist you can go bigger , I will have the password “roma” just in case that i can not take it and i am really in pain , also if u will give me slap too strong and too many or u will squeeze my nipple too strong i will use the password “roma” if i can…. I’d also like you to look like a sadistic police woman , if u have a uniform i’d like it a lot.
By the time I got to the end of that first email I knew he’d be screaming Roma within minutes.
But hang on for a sec. Before I start going into my bitchy side a bit further, i wanna make it clear to you that sweet and sexy persuades a man much much more than being cold and harsh does.
Hi Jaa Thanks for your time yesterday. For me to spend time with a girl who is so obviously out of my league was amazing. Your pictures online are great but I don’t think they do you justice, you are definitely more beautiful in person. I think that is why I was a bit shy when I first arrived. I have to say the session wasn’t quite what I thought it would be. For some reason I thought you would be a bit colder or harsher?! But you were so kind and gentle with me but entirely in control and I loved every minute of it and wouldn’t have changed anything? If you’ll have me back I’ll love to see you again next time I am in Bangkok, whenever that might be. Cheers
You see, my “sadistic” police woman uniform has gotten men to submit to me in ways they never thought they would more so when I was Officer Bitch than when I’ve been playing the role of Officer Jaa.
The key is to be totally in control and that’s something that can’t be taught.
So anyways, Mr. “BigDickLikeMine” comes into the condo and I had to laugh to myself right away once I saw his pony sized dick. Look, unless you’ve mistakenly held your dick in your hand thinking it’s a 1.5 liter water bottle, don’t talk about your dick being big. It’s like convincing somebody from Nepal that Mt.Washington is enormous. Wrong! I’ve seen dicks that would make a black dude jump back and say “damn”. Hmmm, i hope that joke holds up because truthfully I haven’t done a session with a black guy yet so I’m kinda hoping there’s nothing out there bigger than 1.5 liters.
Now he told me he wanted me to put him through a punishing exercise routine, like 50 push ups, 50 sit ups, 50 burpees in 3 sets but that being a Muay Thai fighter it’d be hard to break him. See, he didn’t count on me sitting on his back with his toes clinging to the edge of the bed as i whipped his ass doing his first round of push ups. “Roma Roma Roma” he cried out after about the 20th push up.
“You know what, I don’t like that word because you chose it yourself … from now on your safe word is ‘ee-dok’. For those of you who know Thai, keep that joke to yourself lol. “For another thing, I don’t think you should be counting in English, you should be counting in Thai.” I added and ran through our numbers from 1 to 20 and told him to start again.
“Neung”
“Ok”
“I forget” he says. “Forget is not a Thai number, start again” i demanded
“ee dok , ee dok, ee dok” he shouts out like a donkey and with his arms shaking trying to hold me up as we start again at 1 on his way to 50 of his first set he gives up.
“That doesn’t mean anything, give me the right pronunciation if you want to stop.” and i whipped his bare ass many times to help jog his memory of our Thai tone he heard me teach him once. So we’re not even 5 minutes into the 2 hour session and he thinks he’s been broken whereas I haven’t even begun. Fine, I’ll let him out of his push up routine in exchange for tying him to all four corners of the bed so he’s spread open like a butterfly’s wings.
I turn the computer so he can look over his right shoulder and see the monitor playing the ball kicking video from last week where I Muay Thai kicked the guys balls for 2 hours straight.
“roma … fuck … roma roma roma” he shakes his head at me …. “no way, no way”
“What is roma? Means nothing to me anymore” i said.
“ee cock , ee fok , ee duck … i dunno … roma roma roma”
That’s the problem with these safe words, they don’t roll off the tongue so easily when it’s not in your language. “ee what?” i asked.
“Ok i’ll do anything else but that I can’t go that far” he pleads.
“That’s perfect, that’s actually what I was hoping you would say” and it’s true because guys have this fantasy in their minds where they say “i’ll do anything” and in their brain it’s playing out like he’s gonna be forced to do something “horribly sexy and hot” … it’s gotta be why 90% of the guys in my sessions say that out loud.
So I went to my bucket of toys and pulled out my cat of nine tails black shiny whip. With my left hand I pulled the skin under his balls down tightly so his very hard cock was standing up like the Leaning Tower of Roma , or Pizza .. wherever, you get my point 555 … and you now know exactly where I was aiming with my many tailed whip.
“ee fuck”
“Like how can you see ee fuck when we haven’t even started yet? And what is ee fuck is that the new digital fuck like i saw in the movie Her is being called?” I joked with him.
Slap! … I struck his dick sideways so that most of the whip’s tails would hit the shaft of his cock and the rest smack his stomach. He made that sound you make when you’ve momentarily slipped beyond terrified … like the moment they tell you Jar Jar is once again in the new Star Wars this year. Ya that sound … the one you just made. Joking by the way haha.
as if a million hookers suddenly cried out in terror and were suddenly silenced. I fear something terrible has happened
Universally guys don’t like having their dicks slapped, why is that? I mean pretty much every lover I’ve had has given himself his own permission to slap my pussy or my ass yet when I return the favor it’s all Roma Roma Roma immediately.
So I’ll stop there so you guys don’t start coming to my sessions all hunched over cringing and covering your cock waiting outside my condo. This was a special case. The guy is 3 times the size of me, had a laundry list of things i’m to do to him in the session and he had his own safe word. A guy like that has to be broken down immediately and while the last hour and fifty minutes was sexy and not mean… those minutes didn’t have to be. Not after Roma went back from being a safe word to a football team again, allowing me to slip from Bitchy to myself… and totally in control.
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